[00:00.70]Talk About Love [00:01.01] [00:01.29]演唱:Todd and Jingyu [00:01.50]词曲、编曲:Todd Lerner [00:01.74] [00:01.97]Words and Music by Todd Lerner [00:02.17]Additional Words by Jingyu Yao [00:02.39] [00:02.61]Jingyu honey, I’ve been thinking about something [00:05.60] [00:05.73]Tell me about it [00:06.94] [00:07.06]We have a great relationship, so I was wondering [00:10.01]What makes a good romantic relationship? [00:11.99] [00:12.14]That’s a really good question [00:14.37] [00:14.51]Well first, doesn’t each person separately need to have their act together? [00:19.92] [00:20.05]Must be, I think both need to be independent [00:23.27] [00:23.39]Independent, that’s the word [00:25.58]So, two independent people join forces [00:28.89] [00:29.02]I think they should probably hold the same general beliefs [00:32.56]I’d even say those beliefs should be in line with [00:35.44]Actual existence, otherwise [00:37.60]Wouldn’t that make for unstable ground on which to even begin? [00:41.74] [00:41.87]Yes, that’s the foundation [00:44.12] [00:44.26]I know everyone thinks that what they believe is true [00:47.57]So all I’m saying is [00:49.34]If they’re right, then that’s good for a relationship [00:52.15]And if theyre wrong, then that might not be very helpful [00:56.38] [00:56.50]That’s a nice way to put it [00:58.83] [00:59.01]And the word "communication" is used a lot [01:02.11]Which is important [01:03.36] [01:03.47]And we always try to think of win/win solutions [01:06.66] [01:06.78]Yes, I really like that [01:09.04] [01:09.18]And if a couple starts off with the things we just talked about [01:13.50]Then as issues come up [01:15.86]They’re probably more able to resolve things constructively [01:19.42]And win/win in the first place [01:21.69]Without evasion [01:23.08] [01:23.13]I totally agree [01:24.76] [01:24.89]Yeah. Another thing is that [01:27.92]Men and women are different [01:29.49]They’re of a different sex [01:31.47] [01:31.60]A man penetrates and a woman receives [01:34.83]Is there a possible connection there [01:37.32]To men being more aggressive in ways [01:39.53]And women being more patient [01:41.88]Since she has to wait for a man before [01:44.93]Anything can really happen? [01:48.13] [01:48.29]I know this isn’t your specific problem [01:51.60]My sweet, beautiful girl [01:53.30]But philosophically... [01:55.95] [01:56.08]Can’t man plus woman be a more [01:59.19]Fully-effective human team? [02:01.10]Can’t they potentially have a better and happier life [02:04.99]Than either could separately? [02:06.41] [02:06.55]Of course, they compliment each other [02:09.61]They can benefit from the strength of the opposite gender [02:13.07] [02:13.20]Nicely put. This is all interesting, don’t you think? [02:17.25] [02:17.36]I do, it’s worth talking about [02:20.09] [02:20.23](C) Todd Lerner, 2017 [02:20.86]